Premature ejaculation advice - Boyfriend comes too quickly
Dear Mookychick,
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a long time now and we lost our
virginities to each other months ago. He seems to enjoy the sex but it's all
over too fast. 10 minutes too fast to be exact. We are both inexperienced
but I have no idea how to tell him. A part of me doesn't want to because we
haven't had any big problems in our relationship and I don't want this to be
the start of any. I'm just tired of being unsatisfied when it comes to
intercourse.
Love, Anonymous Me xxx
The Mookychick answer to your problem
Ashley says...
You don't need to point out to each other that you're inexperienced.
You both know it and how damned cute it is. So, from now on, to keep
you both happy, first you help him go round by himself before
commencing with the horizontal lambada. At the end of the day,
everyone's satisfied.
Magda says...
Sounds to me like he's hitting the finish line when you've only just started the race! Which is fine, and lovely - it's great to see how much he's enjoying himself!
However, there might be occasional times where you could beg him to spend about 40 minutes orally pleasuring you before you both take a jog round the love track. That way, you'll both be happy until he finds his groove - which will take a little time, but that's nothing to worry about.
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