How groomed should I be down below for my first time?

The Mookychick answer to your problem

Debs says...

The easiest answer to this is whatever you feel comfortable with. Seriously, if you do take it all to the next level and he doesn't do anything because he's not impressed by the way you style your pubic hair, then he really isn't worth it.

Ashley says...

Whoa, whoa, whoa. WHOA. You've never done anything past kissing and yet you're down on yourself because you think you need a Brazilian wax? You're not giving up your virginity for him. You're giving it up because you want to, because you think this would be the absolutely most fabulous way to do it. Right? RIGHT? Don't start thinking about summer planting yet, OK? Promise Mookychick. Because it sounds like you've been prematurely exposed to the erroneous notion that you need to be Dita Von Teese your first night in bed - probably just because this guy's well acquainted with professional internet poontang and not the real thing. Exactly the kind of guy you don't need your first time to be with. (Come on, can you imagine a guy asking an advice columnist about if he should wax his balls and get an anal bleaching before letting his lady fair see him without his shorts?!)

And finally, uh, keep your, uh, lady garden regularly washed and free of disease. That's all you need to worry about at this point.

Pull over to the side of the submissiveness turnpike, honey, before you start offering him Dirty Sanchez rights before he's even given you a hickie.

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